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{THE GIVEAWAY IS CLOSED! Use the code Mind30 to order your copy of A Mind at Peace from Sophia Institute Press! It will be valid for the coming week.}
Okay, long post coming up here with a giveaway and a then… little note on the argle-bargle…
Now that the Christmas season is well and truly over, it is of course time to begin preparing for Lent in that Trying Not To Be In Denial way some of us may or may not have to muster.
In Lent, we begin again.
We follow the Lord's footsteps through the desert. Committing to read a good, meaty, challenging book that nourishes our spirit and intellect has been a time-honored way of seeking renewal. I'm giving you almost two whole weeks to line up that reading right here and now!
Sophia Institute Press is graciously offering three copies to lucky readers, of A Mind at Peace by Christopher O. Blum and Joshua P. Hochschild. (This is an affiliate link.)
I immediately thought of this book as Lenten reading because it combines tip-top philosophical insight with common sense and readability. It's perfect for Lent!
Professor Blum is a friend whose writing I have admired. I don't know Professor Hochschild but I am assuming he is a stand-up gentleman with smarts as well. He must be, because the authors have written a book of classical, ancient wisdom on the virtues necessary for “the discipline of the mind itself” — in an age of extreme distraction and relentless appeal to the emotions and the will. To be at peace is to be ordered to reality, to see things as God sees them, to know the truth and have the habits of virtue to follow it.
The book is divided into short chapters that deftly combine the theoretical with the practical regarding the cardinal virtues of prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance (the classical Four Cardinal Virtues necessary for a good life). Without getting bogged down in difficult vocabulary or technicalities, the book is a well grounded guide for thinking about and acting on the virtues necessary for finding peace.
Each short and readable chapter ends with a meditation from a saint or a reading from Scripture and three questions that would be perfect for your reading group. I immediately thought about what a good offering this would be for a St. Gregory Pocket reading club!
Just leave a comment on this post to be entered in the giveaway! We will give away a copy each to three readers! (After the giveaway ends maybe on Thursday, I will have a code for you to use if you were not a winner and want to order the book!)
Now, just a note…
I have read every comment on last week's post. I am truly grateful for the loving support and kind (and wise) messages offered by readers who realized what was happening with the reaction out in other places, and how that reaction went beyond mere disagreement with me well into the territory of defamation, twisting my words in a way that would get a reporter fired. You simply cannot imagine how consoling it was to have those comments as well as the emails and other communications that poured in all week.
I am also grateful for respectful disagreement and/or questions. I always have been ready to engage and have no problem with it — it helps me consider my thoughts and expression. I have learned so much from these discussions we've had here.
The sheer number of comments, taken along with the fact that I have written extensively here in more precise and detailed ways on the subjects they addressed, made it advisable to refrain from continuing to respond. It became clear that the well of understanding had been poisoned by unjust characterizations of my actual words.
In fact, once people came here and found that I had not said what was imputed to me, some of them turned to the accusation that I had heavily edited the post! I reiterate what I put in my update: I had not changed anything. (There was a comma that bothered me and I played around with it once or twice, full disclosure.)
So I remained silent. I had, after all, introduced my post as a meditation — ruminative words on a Saturday morning, hardly an essay, much less a dissertation, and of course assuming good will as we always do here — and normally people do not argue contentiously about something like that.
That said, my email is on the sidebar. If you want to talk more (in the spirit of a friendly search for truth on both sides), feel free to email me.
In any case, let me make explicit, by way of explaining why a comment might not have appeared, what the criteria are for contributing to the discussion. If we feel that a comment is aggressive or willfully misinterprets something that was said, or is abusive towards another commenter, the comment will not appear (or if it does get through the moderation queue, it will be deleted). If a commenter suddenly feels the need to respond angrily to multiple comments, then we do feel that he or she needs a break. It's just not good manners to suddenly submit five or ten challenges! How can they be answered with patience and good will?
In short, try to imagine (as virtually all of you do! and we love you for it!) that you are actually in the room with us and each other. Would you say what you are about to say, in the manner in which you are going to say it?
Very rarely in the ten years we have been here have we ever trashed a comment. It has happened literally a handful of times (until last week, sadly). So thank you for that.
On to our links!
- Materialism is the prevailing theory of reality. It denies the existence of something beyond what can be measured and observed, which is fairly easy to refute, because a theory can't be measured or observed, but only exists in the mind. If the mind is only matter, then of what use is the theory? However, in their determination to exclude God and mind from the argument from the outset (which of course predetermines their conclusions, which claim to be based, on the contrary, on evidence guided by no presumptions), the proponents of materialism argue in circles. This review of an influential new book, coming soon, that claims to explain consciousness using a materialist philosophy, elegantly demolishes its premise and conclusions. Well worth a read and discussion for you and your interested high school student. (I think a quick search would bring up the best of the materialist argument for you examine first, if you are not familiar with it.)
- Someday, even if you don't necessarily do sidewalk counseling for abortion-minded women (and their partners), you may need this information that the abortion pill can sometimes be reversed.
- Britian's oldest known lullaby, beautifully sung (but a little weird as to subject matter if you ask me!) (note to my favorite fiddlers *you know who you are*: learn this tune!):
- I cannot wrap my mind around what we touched on a couple of weeks ago, that many parents (perhaps due to the stresses on their own lives, but sorry, no excuse there) are making their peace with letting their young children have access to the internet, with all the immediate dangers thereto. Here is a lovely reflection from Sean Fitzpatrick on the way pornography destroys wonder in a child.
- My offspring love the band Scythian. Check out their indiegogo for their new children's album!
From the archives:
- Updating to say that I forgot to put a reminder here that the Seven Sundays of St. Joseph begin today! Here you will find some information and prayers that are nice to do — maybe just before the Super Bowl starts?
- Give your children the gift of purity. Yes, this will take sacrifice.
- Start or join a St. Gregory Pocket this Lent — start a community now, for the sake of your children ten years from now! The sacrifices involved in raising children are easy and light when you bear them with friends.
- Don't miss Deirdre's update about Samaritan Ministries, the “non-insurance” option for family health care.
Today is the feast of St. Blaise!
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Emily says
A book giveaway? Can’t say no to that! Thank you, Leila and Crew!
And just to say, I love this blog. I love the chatty spirit, the wisdom….everything. It’s my favorite!
Stephanie says
Wow, I can’t wait to start reading! That books looks like something me and my husband need this season.
Erin says
A book giveaway sounds wonderful! I missed the controversy last week, can’t say I’m sorry…but I’m sorry for you that it sounds like people can’t be civilized!
Cindy says
What a lovely book to give away for Lent! Thank you being a wonderful inspiration to all of us; in our house we truly appreciate your words of wisdom!
Robin Mureiko says
Love your blog, but even more, I love your honesty and transparency. Again, thank you. And thanks for the giveaway!
Erin says
I would love a chance to read this book!
Megan says
Thanks for offering the book giveaway! I would like to be entered – is it okay that I live in Europe? Although I rarely comment, I am a regular reader of this blog. Thanks to all of you for your work here!
Margo Davis says
Sorry last week was trying. I missed it, but pray that all is resolved. Happy feast of St. Blaine.
Margo
citycottagesite says
Ironically you offer the gift of Peace in a book give-away. How very generous in light of not receiving much peace yourself in this past week. It takes such diligence to be like the threatened Apostles just released from prison to go out and keep preaching the Gospel of Life. Thank you for your fine example on All fronts. It is difficult but well rewarded to be on the side of Our Crucified Lord.
Jody says
I’ve been eyeing this book for a couple of weeks – how nice to have it for a giveaway.
Heather says
Yes please to the book giveaway! And lots of love to you as always, Auntie Leila.
Toni Graham says
Thank you, dear Leila, for all you do. I have received so much blessing through your words, and your friendship! Yours is the only blog I read. It is unique, distinctive … I have told many others about it! Please stay the course. I am sorry for the turmoil you endured last week. What a mess.
Please enter me in the book giveaway!
Many thanks, and prayers for you and your family!
Lynn Herrera says
It would be lovely to have this to share during Lent!
Kim says
Yes please! That looks like an incredible book. Thank you for posting about it!
Susan says
The books look intriguing!
Serena says
I found last week’s hullabaloo very frustrating – I was tempted many times to jump in but my husband advised against it, saying don’t feed the trolls : ). However, I am sorry I didn’t comment on how much I love your blog and all of you – I have been reading it for years and it has blessed me (and my family) so much!! I loved your little meditation last week and have read it several times already. So know there are probably hundreds more followers who hesitated to comment but were sending prayers and love, as I was.
Anyways, please put me down for those lovely books.
Thank you for all that you do!
Carly says
I’m one of those followers, Serena. You are loved, Leila. Thank you for your selflessness.
Kaitlin says
I’m one of those followers too! Thank you Leila!
Stephanie says
Long time lurker, first time commentator… I found your blog when I was searching for ways to find peace in the madness surrounding wedding preparations before my wedding last June and found Deirdre’s Wedding Planning series really valuable. I don’t always agree with you, Leila, but I can appreciate what you’re trying to do here and the kind of space you’re carving out on the internet. I love how these weekly Bits & Pieces posts always give me the opportunity to see beauty and engage thoughtfully with ideas that might not have occurred to me. I appreciate y’all!
Rhebeka Hyland says
As many have said already, Thank you for keeping this space and sharing yourself. You are a blessing I cannot quantify in any way – this blog happens to be the only place/person that has passed down anything like wisdom to me in my life as far as the keeping and making of home and the rearing of children. uch love to you all!
And thanks for the giveaway, by the way. 😉
Kevin McDermott says
Some may care to note that the melody isn’t “real:” it was created by the young men who sing it, based on the scan of the poetry and traditional gestures of the most ancient celtic music we have. They use the term “delved” at the end; and it is a cunning kenning for “knowingly made up, because we can’t know; but based on the little we DO know, with what those having knowledge, brains, and heart (these three!) can intuit. I find it convincing. The closest we’ll get to knowing what was actually “out there” is the Robert ap Huw harp tablature…and, if we’ve figured THAT out….medieval Welsh [harp] music was…decidedly strange. Have a listen! What similar music from Scotland and Ireland sounded like is almost completely lost; with very few exceptions the oldest tunes we have date to third quarter of the 17th century — before? A gaping hole. Ben Bagby and his group are perhaps the oldest (and best) hands in this field…they’ve been trying to resurrect the secular music of “dark-age” Northern Europe (Iceland, Scandinavia, Germany, and England) for a quarter century now, and doing so very convincingly. Are they “right”? Chances are we’ll never know. Care to hear what they think Boethius’ CONSOLATIO would have sounded like, when sung? Here you go:
Helen Hawersaat says
I’d love to hear that! Did you mean to leave a link?
Rosie says
Helen, are you reading this post in your email or feed reader? For whatever reason, the video only shows up on the actual website. (I think it has to do with the YouTube permissions…)
Leila says
I think Helen is asking Kevin if he left a link… we will find out soon I hope 🙂
Rosie says
Whoops! Well gosh, maybe I should take my own advice and read the on the blog so I can see the comment threads. 🙂
Mollie says
Thank you for the book recommendation!
Mary says
Thank you for offering a chance to win the book. It looks like a fascinating read.
Katrina says
I’m very excited about this giveaway! Thank you for the interesting links. I especially like the lullaby.
adah says
Would love to read this book!
Donna says
Thank you for offering this book giveaway! I agree – it looks perfect for Lent. I look forward to reading it.
Clara says
Book give-away…. count me in! 😀
I love reading this blog! This is the only blog I have regularly read for many years now. Keep up the good work. I love that the blog posts feel like we are chatting over a cup of tea or coffee. It is refreshing and comforting.
God bless you!
Jen says
I have found your blog in recent months. I really love and appreciate it. Thank you for writing it.
The book looks wonderful!!
James Anderson says
Hi, another great post. All that talk about the controversy stirred up by the last post had me scurrying to the archives knowing that I missed that post. Nope, I read it, and I vaguely remember reading it that particular piece. At the time I now recall raising my eyebrow a little at it; BUT definitely nothing to get nasty about or take more blood pressure meds about.
Keep up the great work. I can’t wait for your next post.
Hibiscus says
I met Christopher Blum long ago. Would love to read what he’s written!
Katy says
Sign me up for the book giveaway. I sure could use some peace in my house.
Nanci says
What a great book for a Lenten read!
Gwenny says
I want that book! 🙋🏼🙋🏼🙋🏼
Donna says
Looks like a perfect read for Lent!
Laura says
I would like to be entered in the book giveaway – it looks like something I could really benefit from. God bless you for all the ways you enrich the lives of your readers. 🙂
Paige says
I look forward to reading this, thank you for offering the giveaway!
Roxana Petre says
I would love to read this book. Thank you for the oportunity to participate! God bless you all.
Kristi says
I would love to read this book.
I thought I must have missed last week’s post, not remembering any controversy, but I just reread it. How sad that you’ve been attacked for saying what is simply common sense, not to mention traditional, good, etc. It must be wearing to receive such opposition. Praying for you to stand firm! You seem to have the personality for it — God’s called you to be a voice for truth in such a time as this.
maxinita says
This book looks amazing! Thank you for sharing and the giveaway. I’ll be keeping my eye out for the discount code in case I don’t win it. I enjoyed the lullaby. I love your Bits and Pieces posts. I don’t have time to read many blogs, but I do make time for those. God bless!!
Laurel says
This sounds like a great read and something I’ve been ruminating on lately. Would love to win a copy!
Lisa G. says
That book does sound good! But I do have to disagree with you on one small (?) thing, Leila: would there be any newspapers or news networks left if journalists were really fired for inaccuracy? 😀 (well, a couple)
Lisa G. says
I shouldn’t have said “inaccuracy”, but “false reporting”. ahem. 😀
Leila says
Very true… I think I was dreaming when I said it.
Melissa AtLee says
Dear Auntie Leila, I have been reading your blog since I had my first son. I now have 4 children whom I homeschool, and your blog is my #1 go to for all of things related to home and family. You have truly made a difference in my life and those I care for. Keep up the good, holy work!
Amy says
That book looks amazing! Thank you for the chance to win it!!
Mary says
That book looks like it would be a wonderful Lenten read! Thank you for the chance to enter and for your grace-filled words. I’m so sorry for all that happened. It was so disappointing. I love that you bring up difficult topics and that you add thoughtfulness and wisdom to your perspective. I’m wary of the idea that we should just shut down topics as “already settled.” To me, the fact that such topics evoke such emotion point to the fact that they ARE important and worthy of discussion, even if they get emotional. Of course, all this should be done with charity and grace and at the service of truth and understanding and I believe women are capable of that even when the topics are sensitive, though the internet certainly seems to make it harder sometimes. Anyway, thank you for writing and for the giveaway. Your blog has been a blessing to me over the years.
Elizabeth says
Thank you for the giveaway! What a perfect book for Lent.
Denise Petrash says
The book looks wonderful, and thank you for sponsoring the giveaway!
I’m so sorry that you have been attacked so viciously, particularly over a topic which you and your girls have explored extensively in the past. It is a “hot topic”, but it is disappointing that people cannot react with more charity. Soldier on!
mjeanh1 says
That looks like a wonderful book for Lenten reading.
Melanie says
Please enter me in the giveaway.
As child who lost her mom at 5 years old and no collective memory around to go to I appreciate your Auntie advice.
Blessings!
Heather Turner says
This looks like an amazing book! It would fit into the things that are tugging at my heat for this Lent – silence and time with God.
Mary says
This sounds like a lovely book for Lenten reading. Thanks for the offering.
Mary
Summer says
Yes please to the wonderful giveaway! I also read each and every comment from last week, but refrained from jumping in during an already full week. The conversation was disheartening in many ways as your words and intent were repeatedly twisted, but I was also incredibly uplifted by the huge number of like-minded woman who chimed in! Thank you so much for your willingness to speak the truth and your encouragement. I cannot express to you how important I think your work here is and how much it as influenced my mothering. Thank you!
Colleen says
That book sounds perfect for Lent!
Sarah C says
Thanks for the chance to win this excellent-looking book. And thank you for this most excellent blog. <3
Jenn says
Looks like a great book! Thanks for your weekly blog post and links!
Kiera says
I would love a chance to win the book! Thank you!
Elizabeth says
Looks interesting
Kelsey Skidd says
That book looks perfect!
Anamaria says
Would love to win the book- looks like a great read and I am always on the hunt for good material on the virtues.
I’m off Facebook and don’t really read many blogs, so I know I missed part of the “conversation,” but I was shocked and saddened by what I did read in the comments. So many rude remarks, so many that missed the point…
Thank you for your blog. A friend recommended it above any parenting books when I was pregnant with my first, and it has been very helpful! I came into marriage and motherhood very dedicated to both but with few practical skills. I have read and re-read many posts and series- I know I’ll be doing another re-read of The Reasonably Clean House this spring!
Rachel says
Love your blog and recommendations!
Marie says
Oooh… a Lent book recommendation! I have two groups needing ideas, so this is perfect timing!
Maureen says
Looks like a great Lenten read. Thanks for offering this giveaway.
Christi says
Thank you Leila for continuing to honestly and charitably share with all of us. I do appreciate your thoughtful meditations. And the book looks like lovely Lenten reading! : ) Thank you again .
Carol says
I am in on the giveaway! Sounds like a good book.
As to the discussions of last week, I wish we, as women, could all agree to take responsibility for the things that make us “feel guilty” and stop blaming other people for doing it to us. If you feel guilty, examine your conscience. If nothing is there, let it go.
Victoria says
Thank you for sharing this wisdom with us.
Candice says
I honestly cannot believe the turn some of the comments took last week! You are a gift to us all! Thank you for all you do!
Yes, please enter me! (From a highly distracted soul).
Patti Pierce says
Thank you for this giveaway. I would love to win this book.
Audrey says
I would love to read this book! Distraction, especially with social media, is something I struggle with and have started to turn to as a quick “break” from the world. I would love to replace this mindless habit with something more fruitful this Lent.
Lisa says
Would love to win this!
Alanna says
How cool would it be to win that book? Very.
Dianna G says
The book looks really interesting, thank you!
Kathleen L. says
Thank you, Leila for the opportunity to enter for the Lenten book
We have been following you and your family blog for many years, and with much joy and thankfulness for your kind advice and love of our Faith!
As for the hot button topic..I would only say that besides journalists losing jobs for sloppy work, many college students would get a failing grade (for writing papers) for such improper use of chosen, cropped, and partial word quotes:) Please continue with your wonder work! You truly are a great blessing to us!
Lynn Osborne says
Thanks for the giveaway. Would love to win!
Taryn Bullis says
I’m so sad that you were attacked. Praise God for kindred spirits. and the book looks lovely.
Shyla says
Would love to win the giveaway! Thank you, for the giveaway and for this blog!! You are a blessing and encouragement to so many! I wrote to you so many years ago and you ended your kind email with the sentiment “love and a hug” and so now I say to you “love and a HUG!” Xoxoxo shyla
Stephanie says
Oh, what a timely book selection!
I know it’s not uncommon for the time of year or, indeed, for the upcoming liturgical season, but I have been thinking and trying to direct my efforts lately towards increasing calm and order in my thoughts and ways! (That perhaps sounds more concerning than it ought to – I just mean it as an undertaking of healthy progress and growth.) At any rate, this sounds like an excellent resource. I look forward to learning more about it (and perhaps to availing myself of the discount code you will share.)
Thank you for your encouragement and for continuing on in your work and this lovely blog, “Auntie Leila,” and thank you for this giveaway opportunity!
Melisa says
Oh please, enter me in the drawing! This book sounds like just what I need. Have a wonderful weekend!
God bless,
Melisa
Heather says
I’d love to give it a read this lent! Thanks.
Amanda says
I’ve been wanting to read that book!
I just wanted to say that I haven’t followed your blog very long, but I’m thankful for your thoughts here. I’ve found your posts full of wisdom and articles to “chew on” and am thankful for such a cheery place on the internet. It’s so refreshing to see a blog that gets across the feeling that we’re chatting over coffee in a cozy home. 🙂
Lisa says
I will read this whether I win or not!
Jacki says
Looks like a great book. I tried reading the Piper book recently but just can’t manage it with a newborn who doesn’t sleep. Thanks for the giveaway!
Alexandra says
Regardless of whether or not I win a giveaway, clearly I’ll be adding some new titles to my reading queue.
Also, what a good reminder to be vigilant with our children’s eyes (hearts and souls). My two wee boys are so very small; I want them to grow in strength and wisdom, not exposure to the unseemly.
monthlychanges says
I’m always looking for ways to “celebrate” Lent and ways to quiet my mind. What a happy convergence.
Megan says
I love that’s yesterday was Candlemas and today the Feast of St. Blaise. A book for Lent to slowly read and ponder would be nice!
Amanda says
I always tell my friends that LMLD is the best place on the internet. 😊 This book looks wonderful.
Maureen says
Peace is certainly something we all could use in abundance – very timely in our hectic age!
Jessica says
This book looks great! Thanks for the chance!
You’ve been on my mind and in my prayers. You handled that with more grace and kindness than I think I would have been able to. ❤
Minnie says
I would really enjoy reading this book!
Karen says
Joshua Hochschild is a convert from protestantism! He was a prof at Wheaton College…the “Rome” of evangelicalism. 🙂 He became Catholic and left the school.
Jayne says
Looks like a good Lenten read!
I’m a regular reader, and I definitely found myself coming back to the post to read a few times. It was incorrectly portrayed many places, and I had to check that I hadn’t missed something. I was not offended by the post- no mention of staying home, or working/ not working, etc. Blown way out of proportion. I am a full time working mom at this point, and my work is a sacrifice that I make for the benefit of the family (and a sacrifice that everyone in the family makes in their way). But, all things really are a balance of gift and sacrifice, and in a family, all members (children and parents) participate in this balance. That is the vocation of family life, and the husband and wife must discern what that balance needs to be for their family at any given time. But, the reason I am often here, reading your blog, is because making a home, being a wife and mother, is my vocation! And my “work” work is also part of my vocation, at this time. As many have said, it is what it is! And we all do our best, and are accountable to God. Thanks for your wisdom Leila!
Ellen says
This book sounds wonderful! And I was reading the comments on ‘that’ post last night as I was nursing my new babe in the wee hours, and whoa! Intense!
BridgetAnn says
Aunt Leila, you are so gracious and intellectually honest. Thank you- and your daughters- for all that you do.
Thank you for the giveaway- I’ll toss my name in the hat!
Great idea to add the link for the abortion pill reversal. My GYN receives calls for their hotline. I used to do a fair amount of sidewalk counseling; all these resources are so very much needed.
Dixie says
I would love to read this book! Chris Blum is a friend of my husband’s, too. It looks just wonderful.
We are all so grateful to you for your constant encouragement through this blog. It has changed my life both as a mother and as a homemaker. I come back to it when I am feeling discouraged. I am so glad to hear that the (civil) comments are a s ource of encouragement to you, too. “Let us not grow weary while doing good…”
Thank you so much!
Kristen says
Thanks for the opportunity to win! And for all you do here, including last week’s post, which I had actually even read aloud to my husband (burst into tears while doing so!).
Ona says
Count me in on the chance to receive this book! And let me say thank you dear Leila, and daughters, for the wonderful work you do here. God bless you!
Jen says
I really hope to win the book!
Jennifer Campbell says
Thank you for the giveaway! I certainly could use practical help in fighting distractions. Peace to you and your family.
Nicole says
This book looks fantastic! Going right on my to read list. Thank you for the recommendation!
Kate says
Thanks for your wisdom and candor. And for giving away books. 😊
Regina says
Please enter me into the giveaway! I never get involved in online debates but I had to say something on Facebook. You have really been such a wonderful and wise influence in my life that my mom refers to you as “your friend Auntie Leila” and I stick up for my friends😊😉
Hannah Hilgendorf says
This looks like a book I should read!
Tracy says
That book is sorely needed these days. I appreciate your wisdom and your courage. It is not easy to be a truth teller. But the truth must be affirmed, lest we forget.
Marlena says
I definitely think I need to read this book for Lent. Thank you for the give away!
Rachel says
This book would be so special to us during Lent. Thank you for this chance!
Marta says
This book looks wonderful and just right for the season. I’d like to share it with some of the ladies in my small group. Thanks for the suggestion and possible give away. 🙂
Kat says
Would love to share this book with my St. Greg’s Pocket!
Margaret says
I am just about to finish a book on self-discipline called “Take the Stairs.” It would be nice to follow that with a specifically virtue-oriented book on self-discipline, and just in time for Lent! Thank you for the opportunity!
KathyB says
Thanks for the giveaway, Leila! Sounds like a great book.
Dominique Martin says
I can’t wait to read this book! Sounds like just what I need.
I used to babysit Dr. Blum’s kids when he taught at Christendom— he’s such a kind soul. And I know the Scythian guys— they’re from Front Royal also. And I went to college with Sean Fitzpatrick (though he was a few years ahead of me). So many awesome people in this post 😊
Thank you for the time you put into this blog. We young moms are blessed to hear your wisdom and experience!
Christine says
That book looks very interesting !! I was just thinking about ways to grow in virtue since I’m trying to teach my young children good habits .. but you can’t give what you don’t have!
Therese says
Always timely, I’d love to read this book! Thank you for the giveaway.
Martha Martinez says
Looks like a book Id love to read ! thank you for the chance
Kelsey says
What a lovely read for Lent! I thought last week must have been a giveaway when I came back and saw all those comments!
Chantelle says
Well I feel oblivious! I read last weeks post and found it helpful. In fact I’ve been meditating all week on the idea of being at peace with my work even though it is hidden. But i never glanced at the comments or dreamed that people would take offence. I had to go looking to try and see what I had missed! As others have already said, Leila, I love your blog and the wisdom you offer us. Your post last week was gratefully received by me. Thank you.
And thank you for the book recommendation. Looks like a good one!
Karen says
Thank you for the book giveaway! I’m not sure the first went through.
Karen says
Thank you for this and your previous post. Your points need to be made. Thank you for the book giveaway. Count me in!
Jacqueline says
I always need help to do Lent better! Thank you for chance at a giveaway.
Karen in SC says
That books looks like one I need to read! Please enter me for a chance to win.
Trisha says
Just discovered your blog last week, so glad I did. God bless you!
Christina A says
I’d love to enter the giveaway, thanks!
Amada Beatriz says
Please count me in for the giveaway! 🙂
As always, thanks for all you do!
Chelsey says
This book sounds like something I need to read right now at this time in my life. Thank you for the opportunity to win.
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Anna says
I’d love the book! And at some point I’ll get around to sending you an email with my thoughts on the hullabaloo of last week.
Jennifer says
That book sounds lovely. Thank you for this precious blog, Leila and daughters. Thank you for the wise and mature perspective that you offer. Thank you for your kind spirit.
Carmen says
Looks like a great read!!
Emily Molitor says
I would love to read this book. Thank you!
Chez La Vie says
I love your blog.
I need this book!!
Rain says
The book looks fantastic! I have been offline for many weeks, months! (due to a surprise pregnancy at 46 and even more surprising birth of my sweet babe at 27 weeks) so was not aware of any argle-bargle, but I know that you are fantastic and always speak the truth in love.
Anna Williams says
I found your blog a little over a month ago; I read the New Year’s resolutions post just in time for the new year. I have 4 kiddos under 8, and your helpful advice has made an immense difference in my home over the past month. I feel so much calmer knowing what my priorities are and that meals and laundry are in order! And I would love to read the book. 🙂
Sarah says
Dear Leila and family,
Just a note to say that while I live a life that is very different from yours, and indeed, probably differ from you in terms of at least some major values, your reminders of the importance of making home and prioritizing family and children have been a wonderful gift — for this working mother of one. Truly, thank you for your writings and your voice.
Barbara Juneau says
Both books seem to be good reads for Lent and I’m always looking for new things to add to my list. Thanks for the giveaway.
Kara says
I would love to read this book!
Jane says
“A Mind at Peace” sounds really inspirational. I would really be interested in reading in it! Whether it’s a giveaway or a chance to buy it, it’s a good opportunity. Thank you!
Sarah says
This looks great! I was looking for a book for Lent. Thanks!
Cristina says
I would love to read this book. I’m trying not to buy any more until I finish my current backlog but if a new one just happens to be mailed to my house well that’s just out of my control, right? 😊
Kelly says
Thank you for all you do! Count me in for the giveaway!!!
Dy says
This book would be a great read for Lent. Thank you for the opportunity! And thank you for your thoughtfulness.
Chloe says
Entering the giveaway! My heart always gives an extra pitter pat when a new blog post drops; I enjoy your musings<3
Diana says
This book sounds perfect. Thank you, Leila!
Leila says
Sign me up for the book giveaway!! Great selections!
And, thank you for being grace and class (and truth), always.
jin says
Sounds like a wonderful book. Sign me up please!
Becky G says
Thank you for the giveaway, this book sounds like just the right thing at this moment in life.
Mary W. says
Book giveaway sounds great!
Helen says
This looks like the perfect read for this Lent!
Rebecca Heiman says
I would love a copy of the book!
Claire says
Thanks for the giveaway! I would love to read this!
Anna Lipinski says
The book sounds quite lovely and would be a wonderful Lenten read!
As a reluctant, now former, career woman, and current wife, mother and homemaker; I found last week’s post refreshing. It put into eloquent words something I had often observed: that women’s hearts still yearn to be with their children when they “have” to return to work. I do on occasion feel shamed for staying home instead of putting my “degrees to good use.” Yet, I love being with my little boy (most of the time) and I’m thankful our financial situation allows it.
Mrs. C. says
Commenting both to express interest in the giveaway and express my support for you. Your blog has been an oasis of peace and common sense to me for a long time. We live in a very tough time when people are so willing to malign faithful, vocal Christians. I often avoid comment sections because they can be so disheartening but this blog is usually the exception. I’ll be praying for you this week.
Kim F. says
Oh, please enter me. I would love to win this book! It would be a wonderful Lenten read. Thank you and God Bless!
SHARON PERTS says
The book looks like a great one to read. Thanks for the great links, too.
Mary says
Please put my name in for a chance to win! Thanks for hosting another wonderful giveaway!
Catherine Lloyd Martin says
If the giveaway is not over, I would love to enter!
Alicia Mae says
A book giveaway?! Oh goody. Thank you! A Mind at Peace is going straight at the top of my to-be-read list.
Brigid says
That sounds like a perfect Lenten book! I was so sorry to see all the kerfuffle last week. Your blog is so comforting and wise. And your post was completely correct. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 🙂
Adele says
Books are always wonderful. I was so worried I’d make things worse I just put in a word of Thanks and will again. Thank you for this place where home is valued.
Katie says
Would love to read the book!
And just want to add another voice to the chorus of support for you and this blog- thank you so much for continuing to write and encourage us here!
catherine says
The book looks so wonderful! Please enter me in the giveaway. If I’m not the lucky winner, I may just have to go out and buy it!
Thank you, Leila and daughters, for all the hard work you devote to your blog and the truth, beauty, and wisdom you share with your readers.
Katie says
I would love to win this book.
April says
Ah! Yes! So many comments! I would love to win this book. I have The Little Oratory which we used for a season until life got More busy. I’m thinking of restarting once a week this Lent. 😊
Emily says
I would love to receive this book! Thank you for your generosity!
Claire says
Just coming back to blogtown after a busy few weeks — went back to read the comments on that post, and: holy moley.
All I can say is that you all have been a tremendous blessing to this working mom. Life here is cleaner, prettier, tastier (Egyptian Lasagna, mmm) and generally better because of you. I am profoundly grateful, and it’s about time I said that.
Katie says
Found this blog through Leila Miller last week and I am thoroughly enjoying it. Thank you. The books look wonderful, of course I have to enter!!!!
Sarah says
Thank you for writing about this book. I had not seen it before. It looks perfect for reading during Lent. Reading your blog helps me think more deeply about family life and the vocation to marriage. Even after after my 40 years of marriage there is still so much to learn!
Clare says
Would love to read this book!
Michelle Lanning says
I would love to read this book during Lent and share it with my family. Thank you for all of your interesting and inspiring posts.
Lisa says
This book seems perfect for Lenten reading. I would like be to entered in the giveaway. Thank you making it available.
Heather White says
Oooh – this book giveaway couldn’t come at a better time. I think it sounds like exactly what I need to be reading right now!
Theresa says
Dr. Blum was a professor at Christendom during my years there, and I have a fond memory of a chat we once had between classes about Jane Austen. 🙂
This book is on my Amazon wishlist!
Lillian Bielinski says
Thanks for the encouragement to read a solid spiritual book this Lent!
Robin says
I would love to have this book to read for Lent. This is the second recommendation for this book I have read this evening!
lalyva says
I’m new here, looking forward to “meeting” you!
Raquel says
Fantastic book offering, as usual!
Mignon Thurow says
I would love a chance to win the giveaway! Please count me in! And — your blog is a blessing to me in a very profound way. Thank you.
LiMaBi says
Fingers crossed!
Shannon C says
Well that book looks lovely and since I actually clicked through from my email (to post what lovely quilts you had hanging on your doors last week and figure out what the silly argle gargle was) please count me in for a book giveaway. Looks great!
Ebere says
I would love the book, please enter me for the giveaway.
Cristina says
This book sounds great! Thanks for offering the giveaway!
Janet says
This book sounds like it should be a parish giveaway for Easter. I’d love to have a copy.
Natalie says
Both books look fabulous! Thanks!
Helen Hawersaat says
Add me for the giveaway!
Julia says
Looking forward to using this for my Lenten reading!
Pam says
I was hoping you’d have a book recommendation for Lent. Thank you!
Valerie says
I would love to get that book! I will most likely purchase it if I don’t win it.
Karen says
Thank you for the reading recommendation – I am desperately in need of brain-food! And thank you for the opportunity to win one.
Gabbi says
This books looks great! Hoping to score a copy to maybe read with my family small group for Lent.
Catie H says
I’d love to be entered in the drawing! Thank you, Lawler ladies!
ottercoon1 says
Dear Auntie Leila,
Point #1 – I would love to win this book!
Point #2 – I totally missed last week’s schemozzle. I am so sorry things got messy. I went back to your post and found that you were, as you pretty much always are, correct on all points. (I put the “pretty much” to cover my bases, because I assume that you must be wrong on SOMETHING or other SOMETIME, but I haven’t seen it yet. I’ll keep waiting.) Keep your chin up; you are doing amazing work on this blog (and in your life!), and we readers appreciate it greatly!!
From a devoted Protestant reader who is about to celebrate Candlemas (at your suggestion) with a Christmas plum pudding (made from your recipe),
Diana
Nicolette says
Auntie Leila,
I’d love to be entered in the book giveaway. 🙂
I’ve never commented before, but I’ve been reading your blog for a couple years and I love it dearly. How many times have I hand-copied a particular bit that gave me the guidance or strength I needed to reflect on! So grateful to have a wise and loving auntie online.
Anna Argueta says
Joshua Hochschild was my freshman advisor at Mount St. Mary’s university! He and his wife are great people. I would love to get A Mind At Peace! Please consider me entered!
Anna Argueta
Jenn says
Would love a chance to win the book! Thank you for the opportunity!
ASH says
I would like a chance to be entered in the drawing for the book. Also, thank you for your blog. I was so glad to see a post this Saturday.
Liz says
Looks like a great Lenten read!
Lisa says
Happy Feast Day of St. Agatha, virgin and martyr….really enjoy your posts – thank you! Lisa
Liz says
I re-listened to Leila as she was a guest on Pam Barnhill’s Homeschool Snapshots. It was titled “Order and Wonder” and it was so refreshing for me and came at a perfect time with many words of wisdom. I then made my way to the site and love the wide variety of reading to choose from for more inspiration. I would love to read this book during lenten season. Thank you.
Laura L says
Just found your blog, thanks to Leila Miller! Love what I’ve read so far, and always love book giveaways! 😀
Audra M Cole says
I would love to read these books! Thank you for all LMLD does!
Claudia says
Thank you for your inspiring posts! Would love to win this giveaway!
Anne Marie says
NEED this book!
Heather H-M says
thanks for the chance to win another book!
Angela Pea says
Thank you very much!
Lauren Shea says
Your book recommendations have been such a gift to our family-I’d be delighted to win this one!
Speaking of books, I’ve been trying to track down a copy of This Tremendous Lover. Why do they take these books out of print?? I found an e-version that I can only read on my phone/iPad, which is so irritating. But what a wonderful read! I’ll be scouring for a reasonably priced paper copy, and if you have any good leads on one please let me know. Thank you again for all you do.
Christina A says
You might try dealoz.com; they search tons of online booksellers to find the best price. They don’t seem to include auctions from eBay, though, just the buy-it-now items. So I still check auctions on eBay after trying DealOz. Hope you can find your book for a good price!
Lauren says
Thank you so much, I’ll take a look!
Woman of the House says
Please enter me in the giveaway. Thank you for offering this book and for your wonderful blog! Even though my youngest just turned 21 (yikes!), I still very much enjoy every post and I am looking forward to your book. I’ve sent many a young mother to your site for encouragement.
Tina says
I just found your blog today. I’d love to win your book. Thanks for putting yourself out there.
Carmen Rivera says
I would like to enter to win a free book! Thanks!! Carmen.Rivera124@yahoo.com
Beth Lane says
How did I not know about this page until today?! Please enter me in the book giveaway.
Peony Moss says
OH OH PICK ME PLEASE PICK ME — I mean — Please enter me in the giveaway. Thanks very much!
Tara says
That book sounds lovely! 💖
Melissa D says
Would love a chance to win!
Symona says
My soul and mind need this book! Love your blog, and so appreciate you speaking the truth with directness and tact.
Erika Montenegro says
Looking forward to reading the book!
Mary B says
I would love to read this book.
Katie K says
I really need that book, and if you don’t pick me, please do give a discount code!
Stephanie says
Was offline for Jan and missed the controversy – glad I caught the chance to win this book!
Gabe says
I was looking for a book for a group and this is perfect!
April says
A giveaway for Lent would be wonderful. I’m on my journey to the catholic faith.
Janet says
I would enjoy this book during Lent!
Annie Hogue says
I would enjoy this book during Lent!
Maura says
Reading this book with my Mom’s and kids “Pray and Play” rosary group for Lent!
Tiffany says
I LOVE your blog! So much timely, wonderful tidbits for life. This book has been on my list for a while, and here you are doing a giveaway! I’m so grateful for you all. Blessings!
Eireann Roisin says
I was literally just about to buy the book when I was sidetracked by wanting to read this blog post! There are no coincidences with God!
theluebkes says
“To be at peace is to be ordered to reality, to see things as God sees them, to know the truth and have the habits of virtue to follow it.” Gosh this just struck me. Free would be lovely but this definitely sounds worth investing in if I don’t win the giveaway!
Donna says
What a nice book for Lent! Thank you recommending it. Blessed Lent to you.
Nina in Wisconsin says
Sounds perfect for Lent while avoiding chocolate Valentine hearts.
Megan says
From a mama who appreciates your blog so much and could really use a free lenten book too.
Nina says
Just finished reading The Shallows by Nicholas Carr and this book seems like it would be a great next read! Thanks for the giveaway!
Anne says
Thanks, Leila, for all you do. Would love to have a chance to win the book. Although you don’t know Professor Hochschild, I do, and he most definitely is “a stand-up gentleman with smarts as well!” I am looking forward to reading the book!
Cami says
I hope I’m not too late to enter! This would be a great book for my husband this Lent! Thanks for the opportunity!
Cami says
Also wanted to add, Leila… I find that mothers who did not themselves grow up in daycare, with babysitters, and their own set of keys (latchkey) as youngsters, have an easier time pursuing a career outside the home and insisting their children are “just fine”. But I had a childhood full of memories of being with other caregivers when I just wanted to be with my mom. My parents divorced when I was an infant so I was raised by a single mom, a public school teacher. She did what she knew to do and that’s fine. But it didn’t feel good. I felt lost in the shuffle of the daily schedule of rushing off to get me someplace so she could go be with someone else’s kids all day. I didn’t want to duplicate that lifestyle for my family. We live simply, no fancy anything, nothing much in the bank. But we’re together. I appreciate your support and encouragement for families to strive to live out God’s plan for the family. I think it’s a very real temptation to not pursue Heaven for your family, first and foremost, despite the sacrifices.
Kristi says
I saw this post Saturday and forgot to comment! Would love to win this book. Seems like it would complement the Fr. Jacques Philippe book you’ve mentioned on the blog — which I read based on your recommendation here, and loved!
Christina Chapman says
If it’s not too late, I’d love to be entered in the book giveaway. This book may be exactly what I was looking to read for Lent
jacki says
this is my comment 🙂
Elizabeth says
Enjoy your wonderful advice and would love to have a chance to read your recommendation.
Thanks and May God bless you and your family.
Shamassy Monica says
Wow – I doubt my chances with so many comments already made – yet please put me in for the book 🙂