I think we've done kind of okay with desultory holiday posting, don't you? A picture here, and a picture there… just to stay in touch.
Tomorrow we'll have a {pretty, happy, funny, real} — so get your contentment on! We want to see those pictures!
Today I present a large pair of hiking socks. It's hard to take pictures of socks! I give you two, so you can get the idea.
They do seem big, but then, the man who will wear them is big. He's seen them, but they were presented invalid-style — that is to say, still on the needles! Soon I will send them along. I do like this Patons red worsted. Nothing fancy, but wool, a good color, and nice to work with. I used a somewhat made up but still very simple sock pattern. Made up enough so that I can't tell you “this is it,” pattern-wise. Basically, I use this pattern from Red Heart, but of course, this yarn is bulkier. I used #3 for the cuff and #4 for rest, and cast on 52 stitches, although after the heel I decreased to a total of 48.
If you have a sock pattern you really like, maybe you could share it in the comments! (Usually I would go for something ribbed all the way down, but as these were hiking socks, I went simpler.)
Since it's the new year, I thought I would remind you about this post I did a while back about your new year's resolutions and making sure they are realistic. I meant the post to be for moms, but in the end, it seemed like a lot of people, even single ones, thought it worked for them.
For myself, I realized that the only solution to my paralyzing tendency to dream big and do very little was to have a minimum standard for each day: Shower, make the bed, get supper planned, deal with the laundry.
Contrary to what most people think, setting a minimum — the absolute least you will do each day — helps clear a path for many other activities and achievements! The plain truth is that if you are dressed, you can fit in a shopping trip for supplies for that project; and if you know what's for dinner, you will have those two hours where you would otherwise be mooning around to actually get other things done.
You can do a lot in an hour.
See you tomorrow!
sarahlcc says
Not to mention the New Year's post is Biblical in the extreme:
“And having food and clothing, with these let us be content.”
I repeat that to myself as I survey the post-holiday disaster often.
I'll go fold clothes and put another load in now.
Chinamama4 says
Leila, do you have a sock pattern you recommend for the first-timer? One of my goals/resolutions for 2013 is to learn to knit socks. Would you recommend the Red Heart pattern for a beginner?
_Leila says
Chinamama4, the socks I linked to in the post are the first ones I made! I like that pattern (you might have to look some things up, but every SINGLE THING is on the internet and probably on youtube). I objected as a newbie and I still object to where it tells you to cut the yarn after you've turned the heel, I think it is. I may still be in the dark, but there seems to be no reason to do that. Otherwise, it's very easy! I wouldn't use that particular yarn, though — I found it not very durable. But self-striping yarn in general is really fun for socks!! Check out Joann's for some nice kinds (wool, of course).
Margo says
I really do want to knit socks. I tried last winter. I will try again. So practical and such excellent handwork to carry around!
_Leila says
Yes, Margo, a sock is JUST the right size to tuck in your bag! I love making socks!
Breanna says
For big men and not-so-big me alike, I love Elizabeth Zimmerman's Woodsman's Sock. (http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/woodsmans-socks)” target=”_blank”> http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/woodsmans-socks)” target=”_blank”>(http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/woodsmans-socks) However, you do have to sort of get around Elizabeth's chatty style of writing the pattern to discern what she's talking about. I use the Lion's Brand cream-colored fisherman's wool, for those that want 100% wool, or their Wool-Ease, for those that want to wash their socks in the washing machine. Size six needles for the whole thing, and rib for longer than you would think possible. (Pattern says eight inches, but on a leg it stretches sideways and should really be ten.) These are the Husband's favorite socks, and also the Father-in-Law's favorite socks.
Also, I concur–having a minimum standard makes more sense than abandoning the minimum to strive for perfection. Because as we all know, if you insist on all or nothing you get….nothing!
Dusa says
This is my all-time favorite sock pattern: http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/janiss-ko….
Pippajo says
Ha ha hee! I was just this morning reminding my congested, sneezing, and completely exhausted self that what this family needs from me right now is meals and laundry! And then I got hopelessly tired trying to think of how to fit a shower in there as well! Ah well, one foot at a time, I guess. Happy New Year!
RedTartan says
Socks aside, where did you all learn to knit? I crochet and have tried at least three times to learn to knit and have failed each time. Is there a book or online resource for knitting that you found/find helpful?
_Leila says
RedTartan, a friend got me started with a simple hat. You can read my ramblings about how I started here: http://www.likemotherlikedaughter.org//2011/01/f…
She really talked me through it very well. I then looked up (usually on youtube) all the things I wanted to know, like how to knit continental style, how to do Norwegian purling (keeping the yarn in the back), and how to Kitchener the end of my sock. Many people have said they learned to knit from this book: http://www.amazon.com/Vogue-Knitting-The-Ultimate…
You can get it at the library, probably!
Ann Marie says
It might be helpful to have “the next time's” post somewhere on one of these posts….I know I've read it, but would love to again and really shouldn't take anymore time looking for it. 🙂
I only have 1 kid and don't have trouble with meals or laundry, but I still LOVE your practicality and straightforward way of simplifying stuff to help me (us) avoid over-thinking things out of perfectionism (or laziness.)
_Leila says
Ann Marie, I have added the information that the subsequent posts can be found on the sidebar, thanks!
I hate digging for posts myself 🙂
Heidi says
I have a quick question–it does relate to the new year, at least, in so far as my making changes in my life. Is it possible that you could write a post on the two most important things you are glad you did for your family (besides the obvious—catholic, homeschooling, etc); and then two things (they needed be too revealing) that you would do differently knowing more now? I always ask wise women those two questions because I feel we can learn so much from experience and good intuition, as you have in abundance on both scores. Thanks, love you & your post! ~ Heidi
Jenny says
I received knitting needles and a skein of yarn for Christmas, so I am attempting to learn how to knit. My aunt made me a copy of an old 1960's era children's instruction book and I am now knitting a square! I am so excited! Although it is funny that the instructions keep referring to 'Mother' for help and supplies. I assure you my mother does not know how to knit and has no yarn. 🙂 And I *am* the mother in my house.
I am glad to be making something again. I used to cross-stitch, but quit when I was pregnant with my oldest because it made me nauseous. I never took it up again after she was born because the thought of all that thread and babies was overwhelming and then more were born. Too many hands, too much thread. UGH.
So my little instruction book walks through knitting a square, purling a square, and then binding. I'm still on the knitting square. I cast-on 16 stitches but have somehow ended up with 18 on a row. Not sure how that happened. After I finish my two squares, I have no idea what to do next! Any ideas?
Jamie says
Ha Ha! “Mooning around” she says! About what to make for dinner. You are so right!
Robyn says
Oh Boy Auntie Leila,
Your timing is perfect….I am drowning in chaos here….LOL….we live on a cane farm, have 11 children, child number 6 is special needs, child number 1 is getting married in April, exhausted after Christmas and New Year, would love to make the New Year resolution of having a clean, tidy , organized house but child number 3 reminded me that resolutions should be something realistic and achievable….(he is so funny)….oh & I would also love to loose 10 kilo before the wedding…..do you think I am setting my goals to high….LOL…
I think I will be hanging on your every word this year.
Thank you for taking the time to write your blog for everyone to read, it's always refreshing and honest and full of great advice. I hope you and your lovely family have a wonderful year.
God Bless you & yours,
Robyn.
Mary says
Auntie Leila – I so needed to read your resolution post once more. This past year has been challenging and I needed a gentle reminder that if I do the small things the big ones will be addressed in time. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you and Happy New Year!
PS. I love the socks…maybe one day I will accomplish such a feat. Right now I am in scarf and dish rag heaven!
Teresa says
This is my favorite sock pattern: http://knitty.com/ISSUEsummer06/PATTuniversalsock… It's CUSTOM fitted, but it's simple enough that you don't actually have to know how to fit. She does all the hard work.